Sometimes we have to sit back an evaluate ourselves and what is holding us back from financial success in our business. Many of you know me as the Woman that keeps giving and giving, which is a wonderful trait, however in can be to a fault, let me explain.

I have been in the network marketing industry for 5+ years and have had some success here and there. Here and there just doesn’t cut it with me anymore, I want it HERE and NOW! About 5 weeks ago I sat myself down and wrote down 3 positive and 3 negative things in my life.

POSITIVE

1. have a very supportive and AWESOME Family
2. have a great product I promote
3. work with a group of people that ALWAYS help each other

NEGATIVE

1. numb downline
2. whiney contacts
3. questioning my need to continually help the world

Obviously I have a great positive list so, no need to change anything there. As far as the negative,I HAD to stop the bleeding with the “NUMB” downline, no more bandaids on that, bah bye. As far as the whiney contacts/prospects, I will no longer allow myself to get caught in their tangled web of life, people that seek out more excuses than desires, will always be like that. Now the real BIG one, my need to continually help the world. I realized I have what I call “ACCEPTANCE ADDICTION”. Basically what that is in a few words is this: I have a constant craving to be accepted by everyone, this goes back to as far back as I can remember. I was talking to my Coach about this and he suggested I read a book called “The 4 Agreements” and all I have to say is WOW, was he right. Yes, I will always want to help people thats just how I am but I no longer have the NEED to continually do it for “The Fix.”

Now here is a little proof that ridding the negative DOES work! Recently, my Primary Business company started a Challenge for all of us. It is called The Silver Eagle Challenge where we can earn 1-2 shares of the weekly sales. I was determined to achieve the 2 shares and BAM I did it in 3 days. Life is good, and I no longer dwell on all the negative that WAS in my life just be ecstatic IT IS GONE!

If you feel stagnant in any aspect of your life, take a few minutes and write down 3 positive and 3 negative things and work on fixing the negative, you will be amazed and pleasantly surprised on how all the pieces of your life start completing the puzzle of life.

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As always,

Dedicated to your Success ~

Diane Rosolen
skype: diane.rosolen